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#32: It’s Over [rerun]

July 8th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

Breakups. Sierra Bellows asks people in her town when they knew it was over. This is an all-time ILY favourite from the vault, mostly because it makes us cry. If you fail to cry, listen to Against All Odds, the Postal Service cover. The original by Phil Collins is also somewhat effective.

See the original episode post for music downloads and credits.

#56: Bi-ology

July 1st, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

Two curious monosexuals journey into the strange and wonderful world of people who are attracted to men and women. BOTH OF THEM. (Not necessarily at the same time though.) After hearing our Gay Talk episode, our friend and historian, Anna, decided we might learn a thing or two about the bisexual way and she patiently submitted to an hour long interrogation. We report back with our astonishing findings.

Show notes:

  • For some people, bisexuality means they are attracted to more than one gender, not necessarily just men and women.
  • We mention a widely reported 2005 study which allegedly refuted the existence of bisexuality in men. Before you take it too seriously, consider that a) it had a tiny sample size, b) people who identify as bisexual might feel exclusive attraction to one gender some of the time, so measuring their attraction at just one point in their lives might not reveal their bisexuality, and c) attraction is not synonymous with having an erection (thankfully). CBS gave a nice quick overview of the study and some criticisms.

Music this week by…

Silent MoviesMarc Ribot
“Delancey Waltz” (mp3)
from “Silent Movies”
(Pi Recordings)

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StarfuckerStarfucker
“Rawnald Gregory Erickson the Second” (mp3)
from “Starfucker”
(Badman Recording Co)

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Should exes be friends?

June 1st, 2011

JP and I are having trouble seeing eye to eye about whether exes should be friends. Your input is much appreciated.

Should you be friends with your exes?

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#53: Going to the Chapel

May 27th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

Why does anyone get married anymore? And why do they make us get out of bed to watch it happen? This week, we try to figure out why, against all reason, we hope to get married one day. Sierra talks to two friends as they prepare for their weddings, and things begin to make a bit more sense. Their stories are really heart-warming, and if you’ve got an acute case of the singles, kind of reassuring too.

Music this week by Abigail Clarke and

Silent MoviesMarc Ribot
“The Kid” (mp3)
from “Silent Movies”
(Pi Recordings)

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Bright Examples (EP)Sarah Lee Guthrie & Johnny Irion
“Never Far from My Heart” (mp3)
from “Bright Examples (EP)”
(Ninth Street Opus)

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#52: Spy Stories

May 19th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

We’re all about eavesdropping this week. As a young TTY operator, Laura-Louise got right in the middle of people’s private conversations. Funny, scandalous, moving, she heard it all, and then she told us.

Plus, JP confesses to doing some high-tech creeping when he lost trust in his ex. He didn’t like what he found.

You can see Laura-Louise’s original TTY story at MothUP Toronto’s Vimeo section. There’s stuff by former guest, Sage Tyrtle, on there too. And if you want to attend an event, join MothUP’s Facebook Group.

And finally, tell a 1-minute story at I Like You’s live event in August. Sign up at ilikeyoupodcast.com/live.

Later That Day...Lyrics Born
“Callin’ Out” (mp3)
from “Later That Day…”
(Quannum Projects)

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A Thousand Tiny PiecesSean Hayes
“A Thousand Tiny Pieces” (mp3)
from “A Thousand Tiny Pieces”
(snail blue)

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Fixin to ThrillDragonette
“Pick Up The Phone” (mp3)
from “Fixin to Thrill”
(Dragonette Inc)

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#49: A Few Too Many

April 29th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

This week, we get drunk. In possibly the most misguided experiment in ILY’s less than illustrious history, we decide to explore this week’s theme (mind-altering substances) while under the influence. You know how it sucks when everyone around you is drunk & high and you’re completely sober? Well, this isn’t like that. We’re the most fun we’ve ever been, or at least, we thought so at the time.

Note: Though we preach to the children a few too many times this episode (a la How I Met Your Mother), this show is NOT for kids.

Music this week by…

Stateless (...Plus)Lene Lovich
“I Think We’re Alone Now” (mp3)
from “Stateless (…Plus)”
(Oval Music)

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Mutual Feelings of Respect and AdmirationSean Nicholas Savage
“Disco Dancing” (mp3)
from “Mutual Feelings of Respect and Admiration”
(Arbutus Records)

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#48: Gay Talk

April 22nd, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

This week, we talk to Jeremy about gay stuff, like why it sucks when people call it a choice, but also sucks when they insist it isn’t, and what the deal is with biphobia (in case it isn’t super clear, we love bi people. We were just trying to explain why other people are jerks. Some of our favourite girlfriends have been bi).

SoleSides Greatest BumpsLatyrx
“Lady Don’t Tek No” (mp3)
from “SoleSides Greatest Bumps”
(Quannum Projects)

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Song for D

April 14th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

Even though she won’t listen to this, and probably prefers we never wrote it, this one is for D, with much love.

#28: The High School Teacher [rerun]

April 1st, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

A high school student’s affair with a teacher. This story is a little hard to listen to at times (and a lot graphic at times), but definitely one of our favourites.

Original blog post, including song credits can be found here.

#19: Time Capsules [rerun]

March 25th, 2011
Note: Mature content, usually.
 

What would it feel like to rediscover letters and tapes from your first love a decade later (on paper and cassettes!)? Would they seem quaint and naive?  Inspiring and poetic?   Sierra Bellows does just that and reports back.  This one’s a show favourite, and a time capsule in its own right, albeit not a very old one.

We’re back mid-April with all new episodes!